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To I often think back (yes, reflect) on why I started the Reflections Meetings. I think, for the most part, it was just to get people together and openly and honestly ask a very basic question, "WHY do WE need a second (or virtual) life to begin with?". What am I looking for? The comments that came from that simple question has been and continues to be very eye-opening for me and a bit cathartic for participants. With my 35 year RL background in the study of human behaviour, of course, the various responses are intriguing to hear and for the groups themselves? a mystery to decipher. Several questions grew out of this one simple question:* How well do you respect other's boundaries?* How can one tell if they are addicted to VL?* What is your greatest skill that might be shared with a grid?* What has been your best/worst relationship?* Why do some hate or grief?* What have you learned about yourself through VL?* How does anonymity play into VL?* What advice would you give to anyone coming into virtual life?* and many others...... === Extra Benefits === After having conducted 4 years of Reflection meetings in virtual life, I have witnessed another (or maybe several) side benefits. # The act of residents coming together and sharing the honest"good, bad & ugly" history of their journeys here in this crazy world has helped us BOND. We quickly observe we have all shared a LOT of similar highs and lows of virtual life. The virtual platform allowed us to see the same heartaches, disappointments and thrills in dealing with people, iteven in the virtual avatar form.# The 'coming together's hard with the purpose of honestly sharing with fellow residents also seems to define build "TRUST". Trust was a very reoccurring theme and topic. We all appreciated the actual meeting value and how critical trust played in our virtual world. But to push forward and openly discuss 'trust' in a group setting was in and of itselfunique! It opened us up to be known'. It revealed WHO we really [200] were and what 'needs' we had for this experience....a slippery subject in this virtual universe.# I have seen how being honest built unity and cooperation among grid members. The term "family" is often overly used by many grids where there seems to be very little actual evidence of a rather spontaneous climate 'family feel' at all. But what is a key factor in a family???? Well, in my opinion, healthy ones share openly with occasional topics to addressall members.....acknowledge the good times and bad...are held accountable with responsibilities but they often spin off to other ideas that participants want to addresslearn from mistakes ....and above all....have a climate of respect, acceptance and forgiveness.
Honesty is encouraged, so it becomes I have witnessed the Reflection Group meetings building and supporting all this and more than silly . SOOO.... what's the "Club Chatmission" of REFLECTIONS???? The Beatles may have said it best " or subtle put-downsCOME together....right now... The expectation to talk openly about the Virtual Life experience does lean toward members addressing good, bad and ugly moments in their virtual lives. (both current and on other gridsover 'us'.....but NO Grid bashing!!!)"
Without exceptions, participants of this group on other grids have had positive thoughts and words for this effort"We do not learn from experience.... They often say things like, "This is very unique" or "we don't get this type of honest conversations about learn from reflecting on our virtual livesexperience.". (Una Riona and Orb Emerald are two you could contact and i hope would have positive things to say about THEIR participation in it) ~ John Dewey
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* giving a chance for quiet folks to be known
* address topics that are interesting, informative or just FUN
==The Mission and Idea of the group==
==Hypergrid Teleport - Getting Here From Another Grid==
